i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who is similar to me while simultaneously being different enough from me that we don’t discuss the same things day after day or agree upon every topic we get involved with
i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who isn’t afraid to disagree with me on opinion based issues, and im happy he understands when i dont necessarily agree with him
i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who is very clear on his boundaries and isn’t afraid of showing me where the line is drawn and where i need to stop with certain things
i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who knows my flaws and knows what he might not love about me, and i’m happy that he’s able to appreciate me as i am despite being conscious of my negative traits
i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who doesn’t get paranoid or suspicious when he and i happen to have a day or two where we don’t feel like talking for more than twenty minutes or so, and i’m happy he isn’t afraid to express how he’s feeling and why he’s feeling that way when he’s feeling up or down or anywhere in between
i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who can argue with me about meaningless shit like chinese food and know it’s meaningless (it’s not fucker you’re on egg drop warrior versus wonton weenie meet me at the flag pole during recess bitch)
i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who is so generative and brilliant and willing to think and write and brainstorm collaboratively with me on a variety of things
and i’m really happy i have a boyfriend who puts up with my spontaneous bursts of glucose ridden mushy affectionate horse shit even though we’re not the kind of couple that publicly flaunts its flawlessness and compatibility to the entire world/internet because i must make posts like this once or twice a week and im lame
i’m just really happy
im really happy for all of this and that my boyfriend is a great big cute even if he has EXCEPTIONALLY SHITTY TASTE IN SOUP
dang tho imho some of this is like basic relationships 101???? like
being clear on boundaries and knowing/accepting flaws and being trusting and expressing feelings and shit and so on, like
its nigh impossible to have a good relationship without that and it makes me realize that most of my previous relationships have been with people who are fucking nuts so
dang darn doodily im just really thankful for you!!! gosh
(fuck you for wonton weenies tho omfg wonton is superior and id rather be a wonton wizard than a weenie, weenies r gay)
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